Our Therapeutic Approaches
đź§© Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Focus: Identifying and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviours.
- Approach: Structured, evidence-based, and problem-focused. Helps clients reframe cognitive distortions and test new behavioural strategies.
- Goal: Reduce distress, improve functioning, and build practical coping tools.
- Best for: Anxiety, depression, phobias, stress, and behaviour change.
🌿 Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT)

- Focus: Emotional regulation, mindfulness, and interpersonal effectiveness.
- Approach: Integrates CBT with mindfulness and distress tolerance skills. Balances acceptance with change.
- Goal: Build emotional stability and healthier relationships.
- Best for: Borderline Personality Disorder, emotional dysregulation, trauma, and chronic self-destructive behaviours.
✍️ Narrative Therapy
- Focus: Re-authoring life stories to shift identity and meaning.
- Approach: Externalizes problems (“the problem is the problem”) and helps clients reconstruct empowering personal narratives.
- Goal: Build agency, self-compassion, and new perspectives.
- Best for: Identity issues, trauma, low self-esteem, and life transitions.
💫 Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

- Focus: Mindful acceptance and values-driven action.
- Approach: Combines mindfulness, acceptance, and cognitive defusion techniques to enhance psychological flexibility.
- Goal: Live meaningfully despite discomfort.
- Best for: Anxiety, depression, chronic pain, stress, and avoidance.
❤️‍🩹 Attachment Therapy
- Focus: Early attachment experiences and emotional bonds.
- Approach: Explores attachment history and its influence on adult relationships; uses relational repair and emotional attunement.
- Goal: Develop secure attachments and improve relational trust.
- Best for: Trauma, relational difficulties, and emotional insecurity.
đź’ˇ Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT)
Focus: Strengths, resources, and forward-looking change.
Approach: Brief, goal-oriented; focuses on “what works” and exceptions to problems.
Goal: Create rapid, achievable improvements through strengths-based conversation.
Best for: Brief interventions, coaching, workplace issues, and short-term goals.
đź’ž Couples & Relationship Therapy
Focus: Relationship satisfaction, communication, and conflict resolution.
Approach: Draws from models like EFT and Gottman Method; fosters empathy, connection, and repair.
Goal: Improve communication, trust, and emotional intimacy.
Best for: Couples facing conflict, disconnection, or life transitions.
🏡 Family Therapy
Focus: Family systems, roles, and relational patterns.
Approach: Uses systemic, structural, or strategic interventions to improve communication and functioning.
Goal: Strengthen relationships and resolve family conflicts.
Best for: Family conflict, parenting challenges, and adolescent issues.
🕊️ Trauma Therapy
Focus: Healing and integrating traumatic experiences.
Approach: Includes EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, and Trauma-Focused CBT; emphasizes safety, grounding, and body awareness.
Goal: Restore emotional regulation and reduce trauma symptoms.
Best for: PTSD, complex trauma, abuse survivors, accident or loss recovery.
⚡ ADHD Coaching
Focus: Executive functioning, structure, and strengths-based growth.
Approach: Practical, skills-based, and collaborative. Helps clients with planning, time management, organization, and self-regulation through personalized strategies and accountability.
Goal: Enhance daily functioning, confidence, and goal achievement by leveraging strengths.
Best for: Individuals with ADHD or executive function challenges (adolescents and adults).
Online Counselling
No matter where you are in British Columbia (BC), you can access professional online therapy from the comfort of your home.
Direct Counselling
In-person therapy sessions available in Coquitlam, BC, and surrounding areas including Port Moody, Port Coquitlam, and Surrey.
Quiet Strength Counselling Coquitlam
What Our Clients Say
Excellent rating
Based on 24 reviews I have really enjoyed my sessions with my therapist. I've found them very helpful in navigating areas in my life to become better, also I like that in each of my sessions, I leave with something that I can work on or implement so that I can continue to grow as a person and learn to learn about myself more. Tiffany Kwok I have been a client of Jesse Dhillon at Quiet Strength Counseling in Coquitlam for about a year. Jesse Dhillon provides a safe and non judgmental environment at her practice and offers in-person and online appointments. She listens with attention and compassion to your issues and provides realistic insights and ideas to assist you during challenging and stressful situations. Marise Pinheiro After seeing many therapists, I believed I was doomed to receive the help I needed until I met Kelly. Every session I leave more grounded and I feel lighter with more clarify with different types of therapies that are given to me in each session. The place in itself feels like a comforting home with many fidget toys to keep clients busy while letting the mind wander during sessions. My favourite, the weighted dinosaur plushie that makes it feel like there’s a dog or cat sitting on your lap during your sessions to make you feel grounded. Online sessions have also been just as good as well. I’ve recommended many friends and they’ve had the same experience. I am excited that after struggling for so long, I have hope and faith in my healing journey ♥️. Farhan Kaiyum Kelly Ding is an absolutely amazing counsellor! I can’t say enough good things about my experience. She truly cares, listens without judgment, and creates such a comfortable and safe space to open up. Every session feels meaningful she’s helped me grow so much mentally and emotionally. You can tell she genuinely loves what she does and goes above and beyond for her clients. I always leave feeling lighter, more confident, and more understood. I highly recommend her to anyone looking for a supportive and compassionate counsellor who actually makes a difference! 💛 Oasia Moore Kelly is an individual who appears to have found her calling as a counsellor. The care she provides when you step into the room (and outside of it!) is exceptional. Not only does she hold space for you to talk, vent, and feel, but she will also provide essential context for those thoughts and feelings. She will also use visuals when necessary which I find very helpful. My overall well-being has drastically improved in the year I have been seeing Kelly. I truly cannot say enough great things about her. Sydnie Lovey I've been seeing Kelly for about a year and she is an absolutely amazing therapist. She is wonderful and I always genuinely look forward to our sessions. She is exceptionally attentive and creates a very safe, supportive space. Her guidance and expertise have been instrumental in helping me navigate difficult situations, and I feel my daily life and mental health is much improved by seeing her. Nigel Tan Highly recommend. Kelly is the best :) Sue Kelly is kind, compassionate, non-judgmental, and insightful - all of the things that you'd look for in a counsellor. She is professional, makes therapy not intimidating, and is very understanding of your challenges. I'd highly recommend her to anyone in the Coquitlam/Port Coquitlam area who is looking for counselling, therapy, or dealing with mental health/relationship challenges. You will leave her sessions feeling better after discovering the quiet strength within yourself! Robert Tanra I had a pleasure of being paired with Jesse Dhillon as I needed help with managing the mental stress of being a new parent. Prior to this, I have met with a psychologist who I felt did not really address my needs and having moved to Coquitlam, I thought I'd look for more someone local. Jesse was a breath of fresh air when it came to listening, brainstorming and suggesting solutions to my situations. I felt very comfortable in talking to her about anything and looked forward for our weekly meeting. This helped me with managing being a new parent, my career and relationship. I will definitely keep seeing Jesse and recommend her to anyone looking for help and having someone to talk to. Thank you so much Jesse! Jose Ferrer Kelly has been a great therapist. She has guided me in a caring and comprehensive way through my self-aware journey. I usually leave a session with Kelly feeling stronger, and mindful of my capacity to overcome challenges. She is very professional and understanding. Her approach is always appropriate and useful. Alejandra NajeraVerified by TrustindexTrustindex verified badge is the Universal Symbol of Trust. Only the greatest companies can get the verified badge who has a review score above 4.5, based on customer reviews over the past 12 months. Read more